+# We get (TLS1.3 , OpenSSL):
+# SYN >
+# < SYN,ACK
+# ACK >
+# Client Hello >
+# < Server Hello, Change Ciph, Extensions, Cert, Cert Verify, Finished
+# Change Ciph,Finsh >
+# < Banner
+# EHLO >
+# < EHLO resp
+# MAIL,RCPT,DATA >
+# < ACK,ACK,DATA-go-ahead
+#
+# GnuTLS splits both the server records and the client response pair over two TCP segments:
+# Client Hello >
+# < Server Hello, Change Ciph
+# Change Ciph >
+# < Extensins, Cert, Cert Verify, Finished
+# Finished >
+# (otherwise the same). The extra segments are piplined and do not incur an extra roundtrip time.
+#
+# exim -DSERVER=server -bd -oX PORT_D
+sudo exim -DSERVER=server -d+tls -bd -oX PORT_D